Times before babies, and husbands, and bills, and stress and work was simplicity. I remember growing up my moms boss told her "there are not enough hours in the day" and i remember telling her " there are to many hours hours in the day. I will never think there aren't enough hours of the day" ... that is now biting me in the butt.
My days are filled with pleasing my husband and taking care of my baby. And organizing bills and managing stress... figuring out what we are going to eat for lunch... and working ... i feel like i work to much.. Not enough time for me or the simple things.
Why can't things be simple.
or carefree when we were children and we didn't have to worry about anything.
My parents didn't prepare me for this... they taught me to be responsible and i think that is the one thing that is keeping me going... I know that i have to be the responsible one.
breathe, little girl
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love and respect your husband
be yourself 'the responsible one'
and all will be well
really
and p.s.
it'll never be any simpler than married one year, one bedroom, one baby...
it'll always get bigger, sometimes better, but always more complicated!!!!